PSM #15: Negotiations
PSM #15: Negotiations discusses an approach to negotiations that we can use in all of the relationships in our lives.
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- Negotiations
- We negotiate every day of our lives.
- Are all relationships continuing negotiations?
- Examples
- John Grinder: win/win or no deal.
- Stephen covey: Think win-win.
- Negotiation is trying to solve the same problem from different perspectives.
- On the surface, it often appears that the objectives are different.
- There is a level at which both aspects are part of the same problem.
- This common area needs to be identified and used as the basis for negotiation.
- Then the mindset
- Realize that the problem is a common one.
- Realize that you will collectively solve the problem.
- Value the other person, his needs, his views and urgencies.
- Seek win-win rather than win-lose. Covey and Grinder.
- You can not solve the problem you think someone has until you solve the problem he thinks he has. Timberlake.
- Understand the need that the other one has.
- Seek first to understand, then to be understood. Covey
- We negotiate every day of our lives.
